One sided love in a relationship is destined for a breakup. The one who is still in love with the partner tries hard to hold on and tries his/her best to bring things back to normal. But the one, who has decided to move on, usually does and never looks back. In most situations, it is the man who doesn’t want the relationship anymore. There are many excuses to separate each other like hectic work schedule, family obligations and of course incompatibility. Men, who want to avoid long-term commitments like marriage and family life, usually are the first to take this step. Everything is good as long as the woman doesn’t want a “happily ever after” situation. Men want to remain always a free bird.

Women are emotional fools who seek men who will be good husband and father material. They are willing to overlook physical flaws and focus of emotional and financial security but in the end, they are the ones who are left with nothing but emotional baggage of rejection and being dumped for apparently no genuine faults.

One sided love in a relationship is really hard because the man can easily detach himself and erase the past and move to the next woman. But the woman in most cases carries this burden of heartbreak for a long time.

At times, when the man wants to break away and he can’t find any solid grounds for the breakup, he then tries emotionally hurting the woman. He becomes short-tempered, prefers to point fingers at her any shortcomings and compares her with the girlfriends or wives of his friends and colleagues. He finds new and innovative ways to emotionally torture her and this continues until she totally breaks down. After he succeeds, he is guilt free because she is now totally unfit to live a harmonious life with him. Some men even physically abuse their partners.

One sided love in a relationship is an emotional torture where the woman knows she is not wanted anymore in her partner’s life but she loves him too much to let go. This vulnerable stage deeply affects the mindset of the person and bars her from leading a normal, healthy and fulfilling life. It is fate worse than death.

We hope that this article gives insight to couples who are in one sided love relationship. Maybe they could take control of their lives and save themselves before becoming emotional slaves of those they thought they could trust and depend on in their hour of need.