Love matures at a different pace and at various levels. Usually most people believe and agree that women mature faster emotionally than men. This is the reason why most women prefer older men. Young men are usually labeled as brash and are devoid of an emotional commitment. They usually are turned on by a mature woman’s body.

Mature friendship can also lead to a good relationship. It is not true that only mature men love younger women. Women too like mature men. It is interpreted that when women love older men, their love extends to a father figure. These women like to be protected, pampered and well looked after. Men who like younger women usually want to feel youthful again. Their love is little emotional and more of a physical kind. Young men who prefer older women indicate that they are emotionally mature and it shows an attachment to a mother-like figure.

We all are seeking love. But growing in a love relationship is the greatest gift of all time. A love that stands through time, that doesn’t break with any kind of emotional turmoil and matures like a delicious fruit is truly the foundation of a mature romantic relationship.

Is it that easy to find mature love?

Nothing is easy in life and finding love is the toughest of all. But if you share a good rapport with your partner, develop your own levels of maturity then it is possible. You can try by stop throwing temper tantrums, being overly demanding, constantly criticizing your partner’s habit and complaining about everything in life. Instead learn to be a little quiet, pay attention to your partner’s needs and avoid reacting to situations like you always do. The difference in your behavior will be greatly noticed and appreciated.

Take time off to listen to your partner’s needs both emotional and physical. Keep the channels of communication always open and enjoy the qualities of your partner. You will slowly understand what truly mature love is.

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Socially unacceptable English

‘Tis the season for holiday gatherings, but are you ready to keep the conversation going in English? As you meet and greet friends, colleagues and new acquaintances, remember that casual conversation topics in your language may not be acceptable in English. Here’s a short list of what not to say to avoid insult or embarrassment at any social occasion.

You’ve put on weight.
Avoid pointing out that someone is fat or making any comments about weight, unless you’re trying to be rude. This is often a sensitive issue, and remarks such as “You’re getting fat” are incredibly insulting.

Oh you’re pregnant!
Unless it’s really obvious, make it a point not to bring this up. If you happen to be mistaken, you have managed to let out a big insult. See above.

Is this your daughter?
Well, what if she happens to be his girlfriend? Avoid assuming relationships and instead wait to be introduced, or be bold and introduce yourself.

Your sister is so much prettier than you.
While this may seem like a harmless comment in some cultures, it can hurt the feelings of the person you’re talking to. Instead, leave out the comparisons and just mention that their sister is pretty.

That color doesn’t suit you.
Negative talk about appearances may ruin someone’s evening – especially if they’ve spent a lot on their outfit. Try making someone’s day, instead, by complimenting them on an article of clothing or an accessory you do like!

How much money do you make?
While this isn’t insulting, it’s too personal and can leave someone in an awkward position. It’s not customary in many places to talk about money or salary.

You look sick.
Said bluntly, this can definitely be insulting. If someone really does look like they’re not feeling well, you can ask, “Are you feeling ok?”

How old are you?
Age is a sensitive issue for many, and quite a few people are unwilling to reveal theirs. Stay away from asking this question – unless you’re chatting with a 6-year-old. They’re always happy to share their age!

The overall message is don’t get too personal or be too negative. In social situations, and even all the time, it’s wise to follow the instructions of a popular English proverb: “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.” ]]> http://msa3d.freehostia.com/wb/english/socially-unacceptable-english/feed 1