Makeover For Relationships

Improvement is needed in everything we do, whether it is our appearance or even our relationship. Here are some tips to give your relationship a makeover.

1) Decide: You need to decide on three things you would like to improve about your relationship-whether it is more time together, better sex or a commitment to romantic gestures and work out what you both need to do to make that happen. He could come home early once a week and help you make a nice meal. Or you may need to be more specific about your expectations when it comes to housework and divide up the tasks so you are each responsible for different areas.

2) Practice: Learn to say “Sorry.” It doesn’t mean you were wrong, just that you are sorry your partner feels upset. A gentle apology can defuse a brewing argument and lays the groundwork for a calm chat. Of course, it is two-way street, so you must both agree to say sorry when you have hurt each other.

3) Time: In a relationship, time together doesn’t happen magically just because you live together, in fact it’s much easier to take each other for granted. You need to book in quality time. A date once a week, or a simple agreement that you will switch off the TV and catch up, will bring you closer and remind you why you fell in love. It can help to rule out stressful discussions about kids and money for the first hour and concentrate on your feelings.

4) Compliments: Research shows happily-married couples say five positive things for every negative comment. So make it a priority to compliment your partner everyday.

Relationships are delicate. It is important to know how to sustain them if you want them to last forever.

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Speaking English in Australia

Ever been to Australia and wondered what everyone was saying? You thought they spoke English in Australia, right? Well, they do, but it’s a special kind of English. Here are some helpful tips for talking to Australians.
Dead horse
When someone says, “Please pass the dead horse,” don’t worry, they’re not talking about the animal. It’s another word for ketchup. Australians usually pronounce it dead ‘orse.

Elbow grease
If you’re trying to open the tight lid of a jar of dead horse, your Australian friends might tell you, “Put some elbow grease into it.” Never fear! Your elbows aren’t greasy! What they’re really telling you to do is try harder.

Fair crack o’ the whip
Your boss tells you, “I’m going to give you a fair crack o’ the whip.” Don’t be afraid – you have nothing to worry about! It means he’s going to give you a fair chance.

Digger
You couldn’t dig a hole to save your life, so why do people keep calling out, “Hey digger!” when they see you? Take it as a compliment! This is another word for friend. Australians also use the words mate and cobber.

Spit the dummy
You’re in a really bad mood and want to be left alone. Your friends tell you, “Don’t spit the dummy.” This expression has nothing to do with spitting. It really means to sulk or feel sorry for yourself.

Struth!
This is short for “is it the truth?” It’s a common expression used when you are really surprised about something. For example, if someone just won the lottery, their friends might say “Struth!” It’s like saying, “Oh my God!” Australians might also say strike a light or Hogan’s ghost.

Come the raw prawn
If you think your friend is playing a joke on you, you can say, “Don’t come the raw prawn with me!” This is used when you don’t believe what you’ve just been told. It means, don’t treat me like a fool!

Back of Bourke
You’re talking about a place you want to go to and your friend says, “It’s all the way out back of Bourke!” What are they talking about? This expression means that the place is in the middle of nowhere.

Give you what for
If somebody wants to give you what for beware! This is something parents often say to their children who don’t want to do what they’re told, and ask “what for?” If someone says, “I’ll give you what for,” they are basically saying “I’m in no mood to argue. Do what I ask or else!”

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5 Easy Steps To Maintain A Healthy Relationship

  1. Always clearly communicate how you feel.
  2. Give the relationship some space. Avoid getting too clingy.
  3. Find a middle ground and commit to make the relationship work.
  4. Never lose your confidence and self-esteem. Don’t doubt your instincts or you will hurt yourself and the relationship will crumble.
  5. Remember always be calm and patient. The effort will definitely be worth the wait.
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