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Can we just be friends? English for relationships

What does your girlfriend really mean when she says, “I just want to be friends”?

To get dumped

If someone breaks up with you, you can say you got dumped.

To split up

This means that two people have separated, without saying who dumped who!

We need to talk

If your partner says this, they want to tell you something serious or give you bad news.

I’ve met someone else

You could say this if you meet someone you are more interested in romantically than your current partner (not just an acquaintance).

I think we should see other people

In this expression, /see/ means “date” or “go out with”.

I need some space

This means that the person needs time alone, or with friends, and not with you!

I need a break

This might mean that the person wants to split up for a short time only, but if you hear this you are probably getting dumped!

I need time to think

This is similar to taking a break, and means the person has to make some important decisions about the relationship.

My life is very complicated right now…

This is another way to say you don’t have time for a relationship, or it might just mean you are not interested in that person.

Let’s just be friends

This probably means that they never want to see you again.

English a boss likes to hear

So you’ve landed a much desired job in a foreign company, but every time you need to communicate with your boss in English, you freeze up. Fear not! Exhibit the following five qualities and use the corresponding phrases – they’re sure to make your boss love you!

Enthusiasm

A positive attitude can make a big difference! Make your passion known by volunteering for tasks using the phrase, “I’d be happy to do that.” Additionally, communicate willingness to take on responsibilities by asking, “Is there anything else you’d like me to do?” Of course, when your boss thanks you for your work, reply with, “My pleasure” to show you truly like what you’re doing!

Support

We all like to be around people who see eye to eye with us, or who hold the same opinions as we do. Be supportive of your boss’s ideas, and you’ll surely get on his or her good side. Use expressions like “Good point!”, “I couldn’t agree with you more” and “That’s exactly how I feel” to convey agreement. Your boss will appreciate your support.

Politeness

Remember that a sincere “please” or “thank you” can go a long way. Even if you have a friendly relationship with your boss or manager, it’s important to be polite. If you have an urgent need while your boss is speaking with someone else, be sure to say, “Excuse me for interrupting.” If you request information, you can add, “Please get back to me as soon as possible.” Finally, when they respond, tell them, “Thanks for your help!”

Efficiency

Hard work is an aspect we can’t forget! You will definitely be appreciated if you are on the ball, or capable and efficient in your work. When assigned a task, say, “I’ll get right on that” to show you will begin working on it immediately. Or, you can tell your boss, “I’ll get that to you by 6 p.m.” if he or she inquires about something you are working on.

Imagination

If you have a brilliant idea, don’t be afraid to suggest it! This reveals that you’re innovative, ambitious, and looking for ways to improve the company. Use phrases such as “I was thinking that it might be a good idea to ? or “Why don’t we ? to introduce your ideas in a non-threatening way. Additionally, prepare yourself for rejection, as not all ideas are an overnight hit, or immediate success – but that doesn’t mean you should stop suggesting them!