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It is not the end of the world if you have been dumped. It only means that you were not meant to be together. This may not sound very sympathetic but it’s the truth. There is nothing wrong in being single and breaking up is not uncommon. Feelings are definitely hurt and there is a phase where many feel what went wrong? What could they have done more to salvage it?

There are some unlucky in love who habitually get dumped. If you are one of them then sit back and read ahead. Maybe we may have some solutions for you to try out.

1) Stay away from developing new relationships. There is nothing wrong in enjoying one’s own company. This is will give you some time out to analyze and delve within.

2) Ask your close friends or family to be honest with you why the breakup was inevitable. When they point out your flaws, accept them humbly and work on them. This will be your first step to self-healing.

3) Look back on your achievements. This will reassure you of your self-worth and encourage you to look at your positive traits. You will feel the independence that you once felt before the relationship.

4) There is no need to brood over the past. Things happened and so it ended. No one was perfect in the relationship to mend the broken links. Since it no longer exists, it is best that you don’t look back.

5) Indulge in new activities. Avoid doing the things that you did together as a couple. Broaden your horizon and expand your knowledge. Exercising is a good way to start. It will not only improve your physical appearance but de-stress you and give you emotional stability.

6) Many women fear about their ticking biological clock and they become fixated to find someone to have children with. The focus should be on finding the right man because conception is possible with modern drugs.

7) Never be in a hurry. Let the relationship dictate its own pace. If it is meant to be, it will happen. Never force anything on anyone especially commitments. There are no deadlines in a relationship. Take your time to understand one another before making plans for the future.

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