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When you are in a love and committing to a relationship, you do expect that your partner should be loyal towards you. Loyalty in relationships is deteriorating at a faster pace. “Till death do us apart” is no longer a promise to be kept for real. It is now just a statement to finish the marriage vows. It sounds cynical doesn’t it? But it is true.

Men and women both suffer when their partners cheat on them. But the cheating partner doesn’t care too much of it and if he/she did then they wouldn’t have cheated to begin with.

The feeling of being betrayed is really heart-wrenching, whether you are seeing someone for a short time or bound in marriage. The pain is the same. It also depends on the individual’s mindset. If the betrayed spouse is emotional then this heartbreak can make them do extreme things. They can be suicidal or can commit actions to hurt the cheating partner.

If there are children involved then life becomes extremely difficult. The feelings of betrayal turns into hate and that impacts the children’s lives too. There are no easy ways to forgive a cheating spouse. It takes a lot of emotional strength to overcome the situation when you have caught him in the act. Some women get so scarred witnessing a spouse cheat that they start hating all men. It disturbs their mental balance and they loathe every kind of relationship.

Women with big hearts do forgive husbands for their children’s sake. But it is rarely seen that men can forgive their wives if they have gone astray.

Temptations are everywhere but to strongly believe in your love and be unconditionally loyal to your better half is a challenge for many men and women. The heat of passion is an urge and those looking for some thrill or one night stand should take a step back and look at the ring on their finger. They should call up their lover or partner and speak to them. Remember the feelings when they first met or the most romantic time of their life and control the temptations of cheating.